Saturday, June 20, 2026

Awaken to Your Destiny

You are not a drop in the ocean;
You are the entire ocean in a drop.

Rumi


The universe experiences itself through you
for a brief moment called life.

Eckhart Tolle

Jo Frederiks

I sometimes try to imagine what would have
happened if we'd known the bonobo first
and the chimpanzee only later - or not at all.
The discussion about human evolution might not
revolve as much around violence, warfare and
male dominance, but rather around sexuality,
empathy, caring and cooperation.

Frans de Waal


Pursuing self-esteem can be motivating,
but other sources of motivation, such as
goals that are good for the self and others,
can provide the same motivation
without the costs.

Jennifer Crocker & Lora Park


I believe that we are all creative beings and
that you were placed here on this earth
to create something of value to the world.
Something that will help others break free,
something that lights you up with passion and
something that is larger than just you.

Mastin Kipp


Most men lead lives of quiet desperation and
go to the grave with the song still in them.

Henry David Thoreau


The thing about real life is that important events
don't announce themselves... Usually something
that is going to change your whole life is
a memory before you can stop and
be impressed about it.

Edith Schaeffer


The really important kind of freedom involves
attention, and awareness, and discipline, and
effort, and being able truly to care about other
people and to sacrifice for them, over and over,
in myriad petty little unsexy ways, every day.

David Foster Wallace


Sometimes the smallest step in the right direction
ends up being the biggest step of your life.

Naeem Callaway


The greatest gift you have to give
is that of your own self-transformation.

Lao Tzu


The meaning of life is to find your gift.
The purpose of life is to give it away.

Pablo Picasso


Life is no brief candle to me.
It is a sort of splendid torch
which I have got a hold of for the moment and
I want to make it burn as brightly as possible
before handing it on to future generations.

George Bernard Shaw


The best way to find yourself is to
lose yourself in the service of others.

Mahatma Gandhi


Competition is the law of the jungle,
but cooperation is the law of civilization.

Peter Kropotkin


Service to others is the rent you pay
for your room here on earth.

Muhammad Ali


Life's most important and urgent question is:
what are you doing for others?

Martin Luther King, Jr.


If you want to live a happy life,
tie it to a goal, not to people or objects.

Albert Einstein


Success, like happiness, cannot be pursued;
it must ensue, and it only does so as the side
effect of one's personal dedication to a cause
greater than oneself.

Viktor Frankl



I am of the opinion that my life belongs to
the whole community and as long as I live,
it is my privilege to do for it whatever I can.

George Bernard Shaw


Culture eats strategy for breakfast.
Peter Drucker


Two roads diverged in a wood and I -
I took the one less traveled by,
and that has made all the difference.

Robert Frost


Everything that's happened in your life
up until now has been preparing you
to live your purpose. These have been lessons
and now it's your time to step into your purpose
and make your mark. You are stronger than
your circumstances and what other people say.
There is something within you that is only
yours to give. Give us all you've got.

Mastin Kipp


Friday, June 19, 2026

Transform Yourself 🩋

Before, my role model was the vision

of the woman I wanted to become.

Then I became that woman.


Diane von FĂŒrstenberg


Act the way you'd like to be and soon
you'll be the way you act.

Leonard Cohen


To become the person you aspire to be,
develop the habits of that person.

Bille Cristiane Temanel


There is but one solution to the intricate riddle
of life; to improve ourselves, and contribute
to the happiness of others.

Mary Shelley


1. Prepare: Internal dialogue & mindset.
2. Plan: Set goals.
3. Purge: Internal & external.
4. Provide.


Change your opinions, keep to your principles;
change your leaves, keep intact to your roots.

Victor Hugo


Great things are not done by impulse, but
by a series of small things brought together.

Vincent Van Gogh



Learn from yesterday, live for today and hope
for tomorrow. The important thing is not
to stop questioning.

Albert Einstein


We change the world not by what we say or do
but as a consequence of what we have become.

David R. Hawkins


- Soften your appearance. Pay attention to all aspects. Pamper yourself. Always look your best. Wear soft and bright colours that complement your skintone.

- Soften your movements. Have pliability with your body. Dance. Listen to soft music. Stretch. Slow down your movements. Smile.

- Soften your mind. Be aware of all the things that impact you. Feed your mind with things that elevate you. Pull away from anyone and anything that brings you down. God places people in your life to teach you something but they are rarely meant to be there for your entire life. It's also about the books you read, the people you watch on Youtube etc. Surround yourself with women who have traits that you want to have. Your surroundings rub off on you. Step away from everyhing that hardens you.

- Soften your spirit. Be kind, forgive and love. Break free from addiction.

- Soften your tone of voice. Have a calm, melodic, soothing and sweet tone. Breath and relax. Think before you speak. Speak slower and lower your voice. Pay attention to what voice your use when you speak to different people and why.


- Rebrand yourself. Don't let others hold you down.

- Practice good manners. Say "please", "thank you", "excuse me" and "you're welcome". Make eye contact. Mind your tone. Be sincere, kind and humble. Treat everyone with the same respect. Show reverence for each and every one of God's creatures.

- Soften your environment. Add flowers, scents and music.

- Spend time with yourself. Slow down.

- Spirituality & healing. Humble yourself. Practice love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Repent.


- Get up at 4 AM or 5 AM.
 - Say affirmations. Use empowering language.
- Write down what you're grateful for and why. Journal.
- Be present. Slow down.
- Keep your environment clean.
- Pamper yourself.
- Have a playlist of music, videos, interviews, speeches etc. that's empowering for you.
- Look soft. Soft colors & feminine clothes. Perfume, nailpolish. Do your hair. Smile.
- Be vulnerable and honest. Take responsibility and apologize.
- Think for yourself.
- Be open-minded and non-judgemental.
- Look for the good in everything & everyone.
- Rejoice in the success of others.
- Remain unbothered. Don't absorb other people's negative energy.
- Focus on your personal goals.


1. Live authentically. Set boundaries. Receieve with joy.
2. Enhance your experiences. Enjoy the process.
3. Stay out of strife.
4. Have peace.


You become what you give your attention to.
Epictetus


A seed grows with no sound, but a tree falls
with a huge noise. Destruction has noise,
but creation is quiet.

Confucius


We first make our habits,
and then our habits make us.

John Dryden


Ja visst gör det ont nÀr knoppar brister.
Varför skulle annars vÄren tveka?
Varför skulle all vÄr heta lÀngtan
bindas i det frusna bitterbleka?
Höljet var ju knoppen hela vintern.
Vad Àr det för nytt, som tÀr och sprÀnger?
Ja visst gör det ont nÀr knoppar brister,
ont för det som vÀxer och det som stÀnger.

Ja nog Àr det svÄrt nÀr droppar faller.
SkÀlvande av Àngslan tungt de hÀnger,
klamrar sig vid kvisten, svÀller, glider -
tyngden drar dem nerÄt, hur de klÀnger.
SvÄrt att vara oviss, rÀdd och delad,
svÄrt att kÀnna djupet dra och kalla,
ÀndÄ sitta kvar och bara darra -
svÄrt att vilja stanna och vilja falla.

DÄ, nÀr det Àr vÀrt och inget hjÀlper,
briser som i jubel trÀdets knoppar.
DÄ, nÀr ingen rÀdsla lÀngre hÄller,
faller i ett glitter kvistens droppar,
glömmer att de Àngslades för fÀrden -
kÀnner en sekund sin största trygghet,
vilar i den tillit som skapar vÀrlden.

Karin Boye