Monday, May 27, 2024

What You Put Up With You End Up With

Take care to get what you like or you will
be forced to like what you get.

Bernard Shaw



A man is like a fraction whose numerator is
what he is and whose denominator is
what he thinks of himself. The larger
the denominator, the smaller the fraction.

Leo Tolstoy


- What is your why? What do you want?
- Are you aligned with your desires?
- How do you really feel about men?
- Do you honor your value?
- What are your non negotiables?


1. Responsibility.
2. Values & Character.
3. Emotional maturity.
4. An asset.


We must learn who is gold,
and who is gold plated.


- He should match your energy.
- Assertiveness.
- Secure.
- Motivated to pursue his purpose.
- Accountability.


It is not what we think or feel that makes us
who we are. It is what we do. Or fail to do.

Jane Austen


1. Get with someone who actually likes you.
2. Communicate your needs.
3. Appreciation breeds production.
4. Pour into his needs.
5. Never be afraid to leave.


The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you.
You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.

Bob Marley


- His behaviour towards service people.
- Party habits.
- How he speaks about his previous relationships.
- Is he honest?
- Men who use the term "I love you" to manipulate.
- Does he follow through on commitment?
- Substance abuse issues.
- Beliefs & core values.
- How he relates to his parents & his family.
- Is he protective or restrictive?
- How does he handle disappointments?
- Respect & boundaries.
- His work ethic.
- Jealousy.
- How friends, family and loved ones recieve him.

All cruel people describe themselves
as paragons of frankness.

Tennessee Williams


1. Dating men for their looks, money or status.
2. Believing words over actions.
3. Not being and acting by your values/words.
4. Trying to be someone else.
5. Negative thoughts and words.


To know what people really think, observe
what they do, not what they say.

Descartes


All that glitters is not gold.
William Shakespeare


1. Narcissist/Psychopath/Sociopath signs.
2. Are you the perfect prey?
3. Moves quickly with you in the beginning.
4. Flashy profile.
5. Wants to borrow money from you.


1. Lack of empathy.
2. Prey on weakness.
3. Too good to be true.
4. The sociopath stare.
5. Emotional responses seem off.




1. Trying to get people to like you.
2. Going along because you haven't learnt how to say "no".
3. Accepting "struggle love".
4. Giving undeserved second chances.
5. Being afraid to communicate.

If you begin by sacrificing yourself to those
you love, you will end by hating those
to whom you have sacrificed yourself.

Bernard Shaw


You must find the courage to leave the table
if respect is no longer being served.

Tene Edwards


You attract relationships that are aligned
with your current level of healing.

Mastin Kipp



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