Chase love and it will elude you.
Be love and it will surround you.
Attachment is the very opposite of love.
Love says, 'I want you to be happy.'
Attachment says, 'I want you
to make me happy.'
Tenzin Palmo
The root of suffering is attachment.
Buddha
1. Develop yourself.
2. Be still.
3. Femininity.
Boredom - the desire for desires.
Leo Tolstoy
1. Focus on the energy and not the action.
2. Speak with love, kindness and positive energy.
3. Flirt with him.
4. Put effort in looking good.
5. Allow him to pour into you.
6. Show appreciation.
7. Laugh with him.
1. Be his peace.
2. Speak love.
3. Find his needs.
4. Take care of yourself.
5. Listen.
6. Create your own world.
7. Balance the relationship.
8. Give consequences & rewards.
9. Be willing to walk away.
- Confidence.
- Positive & feminine energy.
- Desire.
- Respect.
- Communication skills.
- Being open & receptive.
- Being encouraging - smile!
- Persuade, don't dictate.
- Take care of yourself.
- Being attentive & considerate.
- Being light-hearted and having a sense of humour.
- Being willing to listen & learn.
- Being selective.
- Followership.
1. Listen to understand, not to give a rebuttal.
2. Disagree but don't dismiss.
3. Be open and honest.
4. Don't make the conversation all about yourself.
5. Be willing to compromise.
6. Pay attention to both words and body language.
7. A loving and positive approach when expressing yourself.
1. To dictate the energy and not to react to it.
2. Speak to uplift and not to destroy.
3. Learn his desires and fulfil them.
4. Flow with - not against - him.
5. Let no man disrespect him through you.
1. Having emotional intelligence.
2. Being clear and specific.
3. Loving catering to others.
4. Wanting to look good.
5. Being fair and taking personal accountability.
When you hurt people, they begin to love
you less. That's what careless words do.
They make people love you a little less.
Arundhati Roy
1. Playing games.
2. Being entitled.
3. Being selfish.
4. Being insecure.
5. Bad attitude.
6. Being difficult.
7. Being controlling.
8. Too independent.
9. Not showing enough interest.
Everything you say should be true,
but not everything true should be said.
Voltaire
1. Overly independent.
2. Too negative.
3. Not listening.
4. Sexual neglect.
5. Friends and family.
6. Lack of appreciation.
7. Letting yourself go.
You can't help what you feel,
but you can help how you behave.
Margaret Atwood
1. Playing hard to get.
2. Being entitled and acting like a spoiled brat.
3. Speaking to him in a rude or negative manner.
4. Playing the victim.
5. Expecting him to read your mind.
6. How you handle your social media.
7. Playing dumb.
People grow when they are loved well.
If you want to help others heal,
love them without an agenda.
Mike McHargue
1. Greet with love.
2. Understand how and when to communicate.
3. Be attentive and aware.
4. Exude positive energy.
5. Show appreciation.
6. Listen and be willing to take guidance.
7. Pour into him sexually.
Darkness cannot drive out darkness;
only light can do that.
Hate cannot drive out hate,
only love can do that.
Martin Luther King, Jr.
1. Reward good behaviour.
2. Show that you believe in him.
3. Make him a priority.
4. Compliment him and show him desire.
5. Initiate the intimacy.
Action expresses priorities.
Mahatma Gandhi
The seed you plant in love,
will grow into a mighty tree of refuge.
Afeni Shakur
- Be affectionate and give physical touch.
- Respect. Express gratitude every day.
- Don't compare him to other men. Avoid criticism. Don't embarass him or make fun of him, especially not his masculine traits.
- Watch the company you keep. Bad company corrupts good character.
- Follow through.
- Respect his privacy. Keep your conversations private.
- Emotional regulation.
- Be understanding. Pick your battles.
- Take care of yourself. Journal, read, walk, exercise.
1. Look attractive to him.
2. Have a mood he can rely on.
3. Give him freedom.
4. Admire him.
5. Accept him.
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