💞 Dating 💓

The secret is not to chase butterflies,

but to take care of the garden

so they'll come to you.

- You teach people how to treat you.

- Look your best. Wear colors like red, pink or leopard. Wear jewelry, makeup, perfume and heels. Make sure that your hair and nails are done.

- If he brings you a gift, say "thank you" and smile.

- Allow him to open the door for you and help you with anything that you have in your hands, to walk on the side of the street that the cars are passing by, to give you his jacket if it's cold and to pull the chair out for you.

- Put the purse in your lap or over the chair. Not on the ground or the floor. Under every bar there's hooks to wrap your purse around.

- Smile, make eye contact and make sure that you're engaged. Put your phone on silent and keep it in your purse. Don't take pictures.

- You don't have to answer any question that you don't want to answer. Just smile or laugh and turn your head. Change the subject. Listen more than you talk. Don't try too hard. Stay away from topics that can be uncomfortable, unhygienic or unpleasant. Avoid topics like personal belifes, politics and religion.

- Allow your date to flag down the waiter. Don't order too much food and don't drink too much alcohol. Not more than one glass of wine or champagne. Order light food and don't overeat.

- Speak in a feminine, soft voice. Have a nice low tone.

- Give compliments but not too many.

- Let him take the lead. Allow it to be silent sometimes. Make eye contact and smile.

- Flirt. Learn from movies and other women. Lean in and tilt your head. Use your body.

- Observe his behaviour towards you, the waiter etc. Take in everything.

- Have manners and etiquette. Take your napkin and dab your face. Make sure that you're not spitting when you're talking or talking with food in your mouth. Be mindful of the noices that you make with your mouth. 

- Always say "excuse me" before you get up from any table. Go to the restroom and touch up your makeup. Make sure nothing is stuck in your teeth.

- Don't reach for the check or ask him what you're going to do with it. If he doesn't pay - it's not a date. 

- Don't complain about anything.

- Allow the man to lead, help and impress you.

- At the end of the date, let him know that you had a nice time, smile and thank him. Be genuine and grateful.

- Let him pursue you, ask you out on another date and start a conversation with you.

1. Positive energy.

2. Look your best.

3. Smell good.

4. Go with the flow. Be present.

5. Flirt - but don't get sexual.

Think twice before you speak, because

your words will plant the seed of either

success or failure in the mind of another.

Napoleon Hill

1. No one else can fix you.

2. Know yourself and what you need.

3. Have standards and set boundaries.

4. Don't give too much too soon.

5. Walk away from dead end situations.

6. Trust your intuition.

7. Hold yourself accountable.

1. Shipped or no nail polish.

2. Being too much on your phone.

3. Too much makeup.

4. Slutty outfits in public.

5. Talking like a truck driver.

6. Asking for money or gifts.

1. Being a tease.

2. Focusing on money & accomplishments.

3. Playing hard to get.

4. Having an entitled mindset.

5. Holding him to standards you won't hold yourself to.

6. Wearing too much makeup.

7. Being too hard.

8. Making it all about God (or anything).

9. Being too independent.

Oh, the tiger will love you.

There is no sincerer love

than the love of food.

Bernard Shaw

1. Quality over quantity.

2. Set your standards.

3. Stand by your words.

4. Don't play games.

5. Reciprocate & appreciate.

6. Be confident and be yourself.

7. Never be afraid to lose.

1. Positive attitude.

2. Physical attraction.

3. Transparency.

4. A willingness to listen.

5. Respect.

6. Loyalty and support.

7. Feminine energy.

1. No substance.

2. Bad attitude.

3. Baby daddy drama.

4. Looks shouldn't matter.

5. Too independent.

6. Doesn't know how to listen.

7. Never takes any accountability.

You must find the courage to leave the table

if respect is no longer being served.

Tene Edwards

Show up and let go.

Love them and let them decide.

Do not force anything, just be open.

Mastin Kipp