Monday, January 22, 2024

Attract What You Want by Being What You Want

You attract what you are, not what you want.
Tony Gaskins


Day by day, what you choose, what you think
and what you do is who you become.

Heraclitus

Alluring: mysteriously attractive and captivating

Your aura/vibe: Be a pleasure to be around
- Free yourself from bitterness, jealousy, bad thoughts and negativity.
- Confidence: self love.
-  Relax and smile. Be light and welcoming. Bring inspiration, serenity and integrity.

How are you interacting with the world?
What does the world get when they get you?

Value beauty and service in all aspects
Beautify yourself and your environment. Keep your home and office clean and pristine. Surround yourself with fragrances. Have good manners. Make it a luxury experience being around you.

How do you make people feel around you?
What can you do to bring kindness, pleasure and happiness into someone else's life?

Mystery
- Don't overshare. Be still.
- Cultivate hobbies. Write, read and exercise. Keep yourself busy.
- Dress modestly. Be mindful of what you're wearing and what it says about you.

What are you passionate about?


The good you want for others is also
the good that is meant for you.

Mastin Kipp

Warmth: enthusiasm, affection, kindness.

- Watch your tone.
- Posture/body language.
- Love for other people.


- Gossip.
- Jealousy.
- Attitude.


Charming: polite, friendly, likeable.
Charismatic: exercising a compelling charm which inspires devotion in others.

1. Authenticity to your nature.
2. Exceptional manners.
3. Smile.
4. Lend a hand.
5. Have grace in interactions.


6. Engage in small talk.
7. Have a sense of humor.
8. Acknowledge everyone in a room.
9. Be tactful when you speak.
10. Keeping a positive spirit.


Develop a pleasing personality by developing
sincere and honest love for other people.

Napoleon Hill


- Be hard to get. Have a life.
- Be selective. Take your time to evaluate people. Set boundaries.
- Take care of yourself and your emotional needs.
- Don't validate yourself through someone else. Be aware of stereotypes in society and separate yourself from them.
- Position yourself as a high caliber woman. Show, don't tell. Develop good taste.
- Educate yourself. Find your passions. Dedicate yourself to work and projects.
- Do the best with what you have. Add femininity, confidence and elegance. Dress feminine. Highlight your feminine silhouette.

A superior man is modest in speech,
but exceeds in his actions.

Confucius


1. Have a gentle and quiet spirit.
2. Living a purpose driven life.
3. Exercising values and boundaries.
4. Loving other people.


- Balance.
- Confidence.
- Logical thinking.
- A sense of humour.
- Natural beauty.
- Intelligence.
- Smile!
- Willingness to cater.
- Feminine energy & vulnerability.
- Peace.
- Attraction.
- Loyalty.
- Willingness to pour into his needs & desires.
- Being supportive & encouraging.
- Have boundaries.
- Don't be too much too soon.
- Reciprocate.
- Positive energy.
- Communication skills.
- Respect.

Some cause happiness wherever they go:
others whenever they go.

Oscar Wilde

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